STRAPONS & DILDO HARNESSES

Getting just the right dildo harness is so important that we've started designing and making our own at our Los Angeles workshop, such as the Full Curves harness, intended to fit voluptuous hips. We also offer the colorful and comfortable Velvet Nest collection, made of 100% cotton, and the leather Vanity harness which can hold almost anything — even a wand vibe.

Take some time to browse and you may find yourself thinking of ways to play that never occurred to you before.

WHAT ARE STRAPONS & DILDO HARNESSES?

Strapons and dildo harnesses are wearable systems designed to securely hold a dildo or compatible toy against the body. More than just a way to mount a toy, a well-designed harness controls positioning, stability, and power. Whether used for penetration, pegging, power exchange, or sensation play, the harness becomes an extension of the wearer’s body and intent.

TYPES OF STRAPON & HARNESS GEAR

This collection brings together a wide range of harness styles built for different bodies, play styles, and levels of intensity. 

Waist & hip harnesses

Classic strap-on harnesses worn around the hips or waist. These offer strong control and stability, making them ideal for thrusting, extended scenes, and precise positioning.

Low-rise & thong-style harnesses

Minimal designs that sit lower on the hips or between the legs. These prioritize comfort, flexibility, and a close-to-body feel while maintaining control.

Thigh & alternative-wear harnesses

Designed to mount toys on the thigh or other areas of the body, these harnesses open up creative positioning and non-traditional play dynamics.

Leather, fabric & specialty materials

From durable leather strap-on harnesses to soft cotton and adjustable synthetics, material choice affects comfort, longevity, and the overall feel of a scene.

Strap-on kits & compatible systems

Complete kits and modular systems designed to work together seamlessly. These often include compatible O-rings and components for easy customization.

STRAPONS AS BDSM & SEX GEAR

As sex and BDSM gear, strap-on harnesses are about more than penetration. They can shift power dynamics, enable role exploration, and create new forms of intimacy. Control, consent, and communication are central — the harness simply provides the structure that makes those dynamics physical.

WHY CHOOSE THE STOCKROOM FOR STRAPON HARNESSES?

Designed with experience
Many of The Stockroom’s strap-on harnesses are informed by decades of real-world feedback, with attention paid to fit, durability, and performance.

Fit for diverse bodies and play styles
From full-coverage designs to minimal harnesses, this collection supports a wide range of body types, gender expressions, and scene goals.

SAFETY & FIT CONSIDERATIONS

Proper fit and secure adjustment are essential. A harness should hold the toy firmly without restricting circulation or causing discomfort. Take time to adjust straps, choose the right O-ring size, and check stability before play. As always, clear communication and consent come first.

FAQs

How do I choose the right strap-on harness?

Choosing a strap-on harness depends on body type, experience level, and how you plan to use it. Waist harnesses offer the most control, while minimal or low-rise designs prioritize comfort and flexibility.

Are strap-on harnesses beginner friendly?

Yes. Many people start with adjustable, fabric-based harnesses or kits that are easy to fit and forgiving during early use.

Do strap-on harnesses work with any dildo?

Most harnesses use standard O-rings, but compatibility depends on toy base size and shape. Always check O-ring sizing and product details.

Can strap-on harnesses be used for pegging?

Absolutely. Strap-on harnesses are commonly used for pegging and are designed to provide stability and control during anal play.

How should I care for a dildo harness?

Care depends on material. Leather harnesses should be wiped clean and conditioned, while fabric and synthetic harnesses may be hand-washed. Always follow the manufacturer’s care instructions.