Sex Tips and Instructional

The Toybag Guide To Chastity Play

The Toybag Guide To Chastity Play $9.95

The Toybag Guide to Chastity Play
Softcover, 106pp
By Mistress Simone

From the back cover:
What's so sexy about not having sex? Everything, says Mistress Simone - when chastity is enforced by a hot dominant and backed by the right attitude and... More >>

Naughty Knots: Light Bondage and Bedroom Tricks

Naughty Knots: Light Bondage and Bedroom Tricks $10.00

224 pages
By Potter Style

From the back of this book:

Learn the ropes of erotic bondage with this discreet knot-tying guide. Discover how to restrain your partner simply and safely, and how to fashion a suggestive corset, a crop for spanking, and... More >>

The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure

The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure $17.95

Paperback, 368 pages

From the Publisher:

The P-spot is today's hottest topic in male sexuality. Just as G-spot exploration forever transformed many women's experience of orgasm, growing numbers of men are enhancing their sex lives with P-spot arousal and orgasm. The... More >>

The Jealousy Workbook

The Jealousy Workbook $19.95

The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships

From Greenery Press, 200 pages

From the publisher:

These accessible, simple techniques are designed to be easily implemented in the event of an intense jealousy crisis. They are... More >>

Sex with the Lights On

Sex with the Lights On $15.95

From the Back Cover:

Everything you ever wanted to know about sex but weren't afraid to ask, in this handy how-to guide from celebrated sex educator Ducky Doolittle.

For more than a decade, Ducky has been teaching sex and performing her one-woman show, visiting hundreds... More >>

Back on the Ropes - Two Knotty Boys

Back on the Ropes - Two Knotty Boys $22.00

In their sophomore book release, entitled Showing You the Ropes, the Two Knotty Boys packaged up all the tricks of the trade perfect for beginners seeking BDSM rope tutorials. In Back on the Ropes, Dan and J.D. provide an illustrated, step-by-step guide for tying 61 different bondage knots and how... More >>

Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes

Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes $16.95

When Two Knotty Boys, Dan and J. D., began teaching rope bondage together in 1999, they discovered that most people learn best when they're shown — close up, step by step, and repeatedly — how to tie basic knots and combine them into bondage techniques. It is this learning process... More >>

The Human Pony

The Human Pony $27.95

The age-old fetish of the ponygirl or ponyboy has never been hotter! Today’s kinksters, responding to the compelling creak of leather, the attention-getting snap of whips, and the rhythmic clip-clop of hooves, have built an entire fetish and community around the beauty, power and erotic appeal of... More >>

Play Piercing

Play Piercing $13.95

Play piercing – the temporary insertion of sterile needles just under the surface of the skin – is acknowledged by many kinky players as one of the surest routes to bliss and transcendence (not to mention erotic excitement).

Here you’ll learn the nuts and bolts of... More >>

21st Century KinkyCrafts

21st Century KinkyCrafts $19.95

Lots of us Kinky folk would enjoy a good how-to book. Well, you need look no further.

Dozens of the beloved basic build-it-yourself S&M toys from the Original KinkyCrafts – the Thousand Tailed Flogger, the Bubble Wrap Dildo and more – are still in widespread use in... More >>

Age Play

Age Play $9.95

Introducing the Toybag Guides: Workshops in a Book from the scene's top educators!

Sturdy little 4" x 6" quick reference guide you can drop in your toybag!

You’re as young as you feel! The adult baby, the sassy schoolgirl, the bratty teen – all hold an... More >>

Medical Play

Medical Play $9.95

Introducing the Toybag Guides: Workshops in a Book from the scene's top educators!
Sturdy little 4" x 6" quick reference guide you can drop in your toybag!

Guidelines and ideas for anyone erotically attuned to being a doctor, nurse or patient! More >>

The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Sex Toys

The Adventurous Couple‘s Guide to Sex Toys $14.95

Feeling adventurous? In this witty and well-informed consumer guide, bestselling author and sex educator Violet Blue shows how to choose and use sex toys to play and explore together-and have mind-blowing sex. She leads couples through the maze of sex toys on the market, explaining the many options... More >>

Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship (Midori)

Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship (Midori) $9.95

This volume on the fine art of foot and shoe worship packs a kick for the novice and experienced alike, taking this complex subject and breaking it down into step by step instructions and suggestions. From torment to pampering and everything in between, the Toybag Guide to Foot & Shoe Worship is an... More >>

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage (Midori)

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage (Midori) $27.95

From ornately decorative to excruciatingly stringent, Japanese rope bondage is an art which has developed over centuries of martial and erotic practice. Now, accomplished Japanese-born educator and practitioner Midori shows step by step how to achieve beautiful and exciting Japanese... More >>

Leather and Latex Care

Leather and Latex Care $11.00

Leather and latex clothing has become quite popular in recent years. Both the mainstream fashion industry and alternative sexual subcultures have propelled leather and latex wear to unprecedented popularity. But these materials require special care if they are to maintain their beauty.
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Folsom Book: A Guide to Electric Sex

Folsom Book: A Guide to Electric Sex $9.50

Written by the folks at Folsom Electric Company, this is a basic manual on using signal generator boxes (low-frequency) with electrode attachments for erotic play. This book is great for beginners looking for clear and basic instructions for e-stim play.

It covers... More >>

Erotic Bondage Handbook (Jay Wiseman)

Erotic Bondage Handbook (Jay Wiseman) $16.95

For years there has been an obvious need (and a lot of popular demand) for a basic handbook on bondage - especially rope bondage and knot tying. But it seems all the people who are expert in this area were too busy binding and tying their friends and lovers to take the time to actually... More >>

Family Jewels (Haberman)

Family Jewels (Haberman) $12.95

The publisher writes: "Simultaneously powerful and vulnerable, the male genitals offer boundless possibilities for painful pleasures. From anatomy to psychology to descriptions of actual play scenarios, here's a wealth of information and ideas for any man or woman who wants to offer more pleasure... More >>

S/M 101 (Jay Wiseman)

S/M 101 (Jay Wiseman) $24.95

This 245-page book, written by a heterosexual man who is a long-term veteran of the American S/M scene, attempts to present an in-depth, comprehensive introduction to S/M and its many facets: technique, safety, psychological/emotional issues, finding a partner, relationships, the... More >>

Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies Book

Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies Book $9.95

Introducing the Toybag Guides: Workshops in a Book from the scene's top educators!

Sturdy little 4" x 6" quick reference guide you can drop in your toybag!

A workshop in a book on dungeon emergencies and supplies- including:
• the thirty most common BDSM... More >>

Clips and Clamps Book

Clips and Clamps Book $9.95

Introducing the Toybag Guides: Workshops in a Book from the scene's top educators!

Sturdy little 4" x 6" quick reference guide you can drop in your toybag!

A workshop in a book on clips and clamps - including: - Clothespins and beyond - types of clips and... More >>

Canes and Caning Book

Canes and Caning Book $9.95

Introducing the Toybag Guides: Workshops in a Book from the scene's top educators!

Sturdy little 4" x 6" quick reference guide you can drop in your toybag!

A workshop in a book on canes and caning - including:
- Cane styles and materials
- Caning... More >>

Hot Wax and Temperature Play

Hot Wax and Temperature Play $9.95

Introducing the Toybag Guides: Workshops in a Book from the scene's top educators!

Sturdy little 4" x 6" quick reference guide you can drop in your toybag!

A workshop in a book on hot wax and temperature play - including:
- Types of wax and candles
-... More >>

The Piercing Bible

The Piercing Bible $20.00

Piercing pioneer Elayne Angel has performed over 40,000 piercings since the 1980s and has brought many practices, such as tongue-piercing, into the mainstream. She brings her exhaustive knowledge to this groundbreaking manual that covers everything you need to know about the process,... More >>

The Toybag Guide to Basic Rope Bondage

The Toybag Guide to Basic Rope Bondage $9.95

From the back cover:

"Here's your fast fingertip guide to the basics of binding your sweetie! Jay Wiseman, world-famous author of SM 101 and Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook, will guide you through the foundations, knots, and positions you need. Soon you'll find... More >>

Sex Disasters  and How to Survive Them

Sex Disasters and How to Survive Them $16.95

Some sex disasters make you laugh. Some make you cringe. Some send you running for help. And here’s the place to learn about all of them…a jammed handcuff, a cop at the door, a date who won’t take no for an answer, a short-circuited vibrator, and dozens more:
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Nina Hartley's Guide to Total Sex

Nina Hartley‘s Guide to Total Sex $25.95

Feminist, registered nurse, sex educator and star of more than 400 adult films, Hartley's sex guide is a thorough, level-headed and straightforward look at all things sexual. Eighteen witty, easy-to-read chapters cover subjects from foreplay and cunnilingus to fellatio, three-ways, domination,... More >>

Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples, (Violet Blue)

Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples, (Violet Blue) $19.00

This book is written for the fetishist, for their lovers and for anyone who wants to make a fetish into a sex toy. Or, to maximize a fetish, figure out if you have a fetish, how to talk about it with a lover, "come out" about your fetish, or find community—or just hot porn. Most everyone has a... More >>

Sensuous Magic

Sensuous Magic  $14.95

For all couples interested in bondage, S/M, dominance and submission - women and men of all sexual orientations and genders.

Topics include:

How to introduce bondage, spanking, whipping, and other S/M techniques into your relationship; how to choose whips,... More >>

Secret Sexual Positions (Stubbs, Ph.D.)

Secret Sexual Positions (Stubbs, Ph.D.) $16.95

This new, lavishly illustrated guidebook by the bestselling author of Erotic Massage takes readers on a tour of sexual practices throughout the ages. Drawing on a rich variety of cultures and eras, Secret Sexual Positions provides methods that can open us to forgotten or undiscovered... More >>

Anal Sex for Couples

Anal Sex for Couples $19.95

"Anal Sex For Couples" is a good basic introduction to anal penetration and intercourse. Geared towards straight couples who are interested in, but hesitant about, anal sex, this book destroys the myth that anal sex must be painful and introduces the techniques, tools, and methods... More >>

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus (Violet Blue)

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus (Violet Blue) $14.95

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure.

The complete self-help book on cunnilingus for everyone who would like to enjoy cunnilingus—women and men!

Sex educator Violet Blue tells you all you need to know to... More >>

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio (Violet Blue)

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio (Violet Blue) $14.95

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio

How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure

The complete step-by-step guide to fellatio for everyone — men and women!


How to introduce fellatio into your sexual repertoire
... More >>

Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink (Midori)

Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink (Midori) $17.99

This delightfully twisted new volume by acclaimed writer and sex educator Midori titillates as well as educates. Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink takes erotic adventure to a personal level and exposes some of Midori's most helpful and empowering secrets.

Let the world famous Midori... More >>

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book (Felice Newman)

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book (Felice Newman) $24.95

Finally, a sex guide for all of us. Whether you are lesbian, bisexual, butch, femme, androgynous, or transgendered - and even if you have just discovered that you want to have sex with a woman - this book is for you. Here's everything you need to know about creating a sex life that... More >>

Tricks to Please a Woman (Jay Wiseman)

Tricks to Please a Woman (Jay Wiseman) $13.95

Bestselling sex author and educator, Jay Wiseman, created his Tricks series of books on "how to make good sex better" nearly a decade ago. They've been... More >>

A Hand in the Bush

A Hand in the Bush  $13.95

"Fisting is an incredible experience, not only physically, but mentally and emotionally." This book thoroughly details all the ins-and-outs of giving and receiving vaginal orgasms with the fisted hand.

There are surprisingly few texts on this subject. This one is very easy... More >>

Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men (Bill Brent)

Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men (Bill Brent) $14.95

From the publishers of the best-selling, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, comes a companion book specifically for men. This is a sexy, fun-to-read guide, offering comprehensive information on all aspects of anal play:

- Clear, illustrated discussion of anatomy
... More >>

Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (Tristan Taormino)

Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (Tristan Taormino) $16.95

The publisher writes: The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women offers comprehensive information on all aspects of anal eroticism and health. For all women, heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual, who want to learn how to enjoy anal sex with a partner or by themselves:

- Clear,... More >>

Soaked by Joseph Bean

Soaked by Joseph Bean $14.95

Soaked! is full of Erotic stories of piss play and guidelines to make getting soaked or satisfying your thirst safer, wilder and more enjoyably.

How complicated can a little Water Sports action be? It's our attraction to that warm wetness that noted author and historian... More >>

Screw The Roses, Send Me the Thorns

Screw The Roses, Send Me the Thorns $24.95

One of the better classic instructional/overview S/M books, first added to our inventory by popular demand after being discussed extensively in various message boards.

There is lots of technical info (with illustrations and photos) on bondage, leather, knot... More >>

Erotic Slavehood

Erotic Slavehood $15.95

The legendary Miss Christina Abernathy, before her retirement from the scene, condensed her considerable wisdom and experience on the topic of consensual erotic owner/slave relationships into two essential guidebooks. Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual set forth the... More >>

When Someone You Love is Kinky

When Someone You Love is Kinky $15.95

Many, many people in this world have sexual interests or practices that are in some way unusual. These people may enjoy bondage or spanking, erotic role-playing, dressing in special clothes that turn them on, or a host of other activities that place them outside the sexual... More >>

The Compleat Slave (Jack Rinella)

The Compleat Slave (Jack Rinella) $15.95

This informative overview of the leather scene features Rinella's guidelines, tips and personal experiences in creating safe and sane Master/slave relationships.

Whether you are a novice D/s player or an experienced Master or slave, this volume will prove a welcome... More >>

SlaveCraft (Guy Baldwin)

SlaveCraft (Guy Baldwin) $15.95

SlaveCraft dares to delve beneath the surface of D/s relationships and gives the reader an intimate and revealing view from a rare perspective - that of a slave. Guy Baldwin, author of More >>

Painfully Obvious (Davolt)

Painfully Obvious (Davolt) $16.95

Nominated for 2005 Stonewall Book Award
- American Library Association

"Painfully Obvious" is a collection of 40 provocative essays by the former publisher of Drummer magazine and popular San Francisco leather columnist, Robert... More >>

Mistress Manual (Mistress Lorelei)

Mistress Manual (Mistress Lorelei) $16.95

Dubbed "The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance," this is a great book from an experienced practitioner.

The main sections are:

Becoming a Mistress (including chapters on Why Become a Mistress, The Reluctant Mistress, Maintaining your Relationship); The... More >>

The New Topping Book

The New Topping Book $14.95

This book covers the hows and whys of playing the dominant role, written by two experienced players. Sections include: What do tops do?, How do you learn?, S/M ethics, Wild scenes we have known, If it doesn't go the way you planned, Toys, Where all the bottoms are, and Shadow play.... More >>

The New Bottoming Book (Easton and Hardy)

The New Bottoming Book (Easton and Hardy) $14.95

Since the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave boy or girl, or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and... More >>

Woof! (Michael Daniels)

Woof! (Michael Daniels) $16.95

Woof! leads the way in informing and enlightening readers about the realm of human pups and their Handlers. Michael Daniels' book offers a wonderful, first-hand look at the hows and whys of human pups as well as guidance for their care and training.

He gives the dog play... More >>

Sexually Dominant Woman Workbook (Lady Green)

Sexually Dominant Woman Workbook (Lady Green) $11.95

Billed as "A Workbook for Nervous Beginners," this revised and updated 86-page book offers a... More >>

The Compleat Spanker (Lady Green)

The Compleat Spanker (Lady Green) $12.95

"A valuable resource for new explorers, seasoned players, and open-minded non-participants alike." Headings such as "Anatomy of a Spankee", "Positions", "Communication and Mood", "Tips, Tricks, and Fun Things to Try." A few illustrative drawings.

The section called "Why Do... More >>

The Ethical Slut

The Ethical Slut $16.99

The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures, is a popular and often referenced book from Greenery Press, written by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy, the authors of The Bottoming Book and The Topping Book.

This updated 2nd edition eloquently... More >>

The Ultimate Guide to Kink

The Ultimate Guide to Kink $19.95

This collection of communal knowledge of kink and kinky craft covers the ins-and-outs of BDSM, role play, necessary wear and gear, with beautiful illustrations from Katie Diamond, and informative essays from some of our favorite voices including Midori, Jack Rinella, Ignacio Rivera, and more! This... More >>

Radical Ecstasy

Radical Ecstasy $16.95

For Millennia, seekers have used physical and emotional extremes to achieve transcendence and exaltation. Today, many BDSM and leather practitioners are discovering the potential of these practices to reach personal, interpersonal and spiritual goals.

In these pages,... More >>

Healing Sex

Healing Sex $25.95

Healing Sex is the encouraging, sex-positive guide for all women survivors of sexual assault- heterosexual, bisexual, lesbian, coupled, and single-who want to delight in their own sexuality.

While most books on the topic broach sexuality to reassure... More >>

My Girlfriend Comes to the City and Beats Me Up

My Girlfriend Comes to the City and Beats Me Up $13.95

From the acclaimed author of Happy Baby (MacAdam/Cage Publishing), comes this brilliant collection of fiction, memoir and the murky terrain betwixt and between. My Girlfriend Comes to the City and Beats Me Up (Cleis Press) offers some of the most provocative texts on the BDSM... More >>

Bondage for Sex (Chanta Rose)

Bondage for Sex (Chanta Rose) $31.95

In "Bondage for Sex," Chanta Rose teaches bondage that is easy, safe, and comfortable during penetrative sex. For many couples, the bondage comes off before the sex begins. Here Rose teaches rope bondage that couples can use safely during partner sex, thereby incorporating bondage as part of the... More >>

LeatherSex (Joseph Bean)

LeatherSex (Joseph Bean) $16.95

This book was written for people seeking a more interesting and fulfilling erotic life. It gives guidance in one popular style of erotic play which the author calls "leathersex"-sexuality that may include S/M, bondage, dominance, submission, fantasy, role playing, sensual physical stimulation, and... More >>

Leathersex Q and A (Joseph Bean)

Leathersex Q and A (Joseph Bean) $16.95

Here, the author of Leathersex becomes the Ann Landers of Leather, answering scores of actual letters sent to him over several years of his career as a lecturer, columnist, and editor of a gay men's leather magazine. His answers and insights are intended for anyone trying to negotiate... More >>

Ties That Bind (Guy Baldwin)

Ties That Bind (Guy Baldwin) $16.95

The writings of Guy Baldwin, one of the most respected and knowledgeable people on the subject of the SM/leather/fetish erotic style, have been compiled in this book. Issues regarding relationships, the community, the SM experience, and personal transformation, as they relate to this... More >>

Urban Aboriginals

Urban Aboriginals  $15.95

A subculture of gay men participate in a radical form of sexuality and community known as leather. Through intimate forms of encounter, using such tools as pain-pleasure, bondage, and role-play, leather can bring a shift of consciousness and a new vision of the self.
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Leather Contest Guide (Guy Baldwin)

Leather Contest Guide (Guy Baldwin) $14.95

This is truly an exhaustive guide to the leather contest. Contest promoters, contestants, judges and winners will all benefit from the sound advice presented in this book.

Written by Guy Baldwin, one of the most famous names in the leather community and a former titleholder, this book... More >>

Leatherfolk (Mark Thompson, ed.)

Leatherfolk (Mark Thompson, ed.) $17.95

Since its publication a decade ago, this Lambda Literary Award-nominated book has become a classic must-read on the shelf of books adressing human sexuality and identity. Widely cited as among the most useful books of its kind, Leatherfolk is both... More >>

Beneath The Skins (Ivo Dominguez)

Beneath The Skins (Ivo Dominguez) $14.00

In recent years, large numbers men and women have coalesced into a vibrant community that generally refers to itself as the leather/SM/fetish community. This community is defined by a common interest in styles of sexuality that are broadly described by the term "leather/SM/fetish." With the... More >>

Please Understand Me II, Keirsey

Please Understand Me II, Keirsey $15.95

This practical and insightful book about personality types has been so useful for us and our friends, families, and business associates that we decided it would make things easier for all of us if we stocked it.

Phenomenon: Keirsey and Bates's Please Understand Me, first... More >>

Partners in Power (Jack Rinella)

Partners in Power (Jack Rinella) $16.95

Is it possible to form lasting, healthy, loving relationships that are based on power, control and pain? Of course, says Jack Rinella, author of The Master's Manual and The Compleat Slave.

Respected columnist and scene leader, Rinella, has carefully explored how BDSM... More >>

Consensual SadoMasochism

Consensual SadoMasochism $17.95

Easy to read, easy to follow, and easy to understand, in this book the authors define and demystify the unique language of consensual sadomasochism, examine the psychological power of erotic dominance and submission, provide a carefully considered guide for safe SM play, and explain... More >>

Love In Abundance

Love In Abundance $15.95

Relationship counselor Kathy Labriola offers an overview of alternatives to monogamy in this revealing, liberating, and informative book. This work is broken into easily discernable chapters including a working definition and layout of the models of open relationships, followed by an examination of... More >>

The Loving Dominant

The Loving Dominant  $16.95

John Warren, known as "Mentor" to the tens of thousands who have read his books or hearkened to his advice at his workshops and gatherings, has brought his decades of BDSM experience to this comprehensive manual. From its advice on "Stalking the Wild Submissive" to its extensive Resource... More >>

Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot

Smart Girl‘s Guide to the G-Spot $14.95

Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot
by Violet Blue

From the back cover:

With with and panache, sex educator and best-selling writer Violet Blue breaks down the essential elements of great G-spot play —and tells you exactly how to... More >>